Thursday, 8 February 2018

Valentine’s Day Is For Fools.

Again it is February: - The month of love..?!! 
No wonder the shortest one in the calendar
.” The time of befooling of Love Birds.
Only One day for love. For Fools love is only a date,only an event to celeberate .In the name of Valentine, the youth are befooled .They are slaved by all the commercial hypes, just what is really going on here?. Love isn't just a date, a crush or a fling. No. Love is all of this, yes. Love is when you can be miles apart and, yet feel like you are connected like the two of you are sitting just next to one another. 
Valentine day is for Fools
Love is when the other person has the ability to challenge you as a person in every way possible. If you are in a relationship, is it what you always dreamed about? .v Simple they are getting befooled in nae of Valentine Day. Love is not only blind; it can be stupid too, particularly when it comes to Valentine’s Day.
Feel Love for life long --Not an event of one day Valentine
And why should you only celebrate and demonstrate your love on just one day of the year “That in name of Valentine”?
Inspirational Mother Theresa says: "Love is a fruit in season at all times, and within reach of every hand."
Here, I am sharing four lines of a lyric from Film Khamoshi written by Poet Gulzar. These lines explain the delicate spiritual feeling of Love. The couplet suggests that it is best not to label a relationship. That enables love to remain pure and unstained. Sometimes, two people are drawn to each other but their relationship has no name. By giving a label to a relationship, expectations to conform to the norms of that label set in. The couplet suggests that it is best not to label a relationship. That enables love to remain pure and unstained.

“Pyar Koi Bol Nahi, Pyar Aawaaz Nahi 
Ek Khamoshi Hai, Sunti Hai Kaha Karti Hai 
Na Ye Bujhti Hai Na Rukti Hai, Na Thehri Hai Kahi 
Noor Ki Boond Hai, Sadiyon Se Baha Karti Hai.” 
For Youth celebrating Valentine day, love means physical and nothing more than this. They don’t understand the tender and pure feeling of love. They are copying the western culture and are forgetting our own heritage and culture. One Valentine’s Day, they involve themselves in showcasing of love openly on streets, parks, restaurants and other public places. 

They go crazy in proclaiming their love, for their loved ones on Valentine’s Day. But putting aside all the commercial hype, just what is really going on here?! They are energized as the week of affection begins, Hallmarks and Archie's agonizing with adoration tokens, there is love noticeable all around .Valentine week generates a lot of income and revenue for various flower, gifts, Chocolates and recreational companies and entertainment spots.





As per Legend:---In the third century A.D, Valentine was the bishop of Italy. He performed weddings for couples who were not allowed to get married. They may not
have been allowed to get married because the parents did not agree with the connection or because the bridegroom was a soldier or a slave, so the marriage was forbidden.

Rose Day --Valentine Week

There are seven days which are celebrated before the Valentine’s Day. , Each day is celebrated in different ways and manner .The seven days before Valentine’s Day are:

·February 7th: Rose Day
·February 8th: Propose Day
·February 9th: Chocolate Day
·February 10th: Teddy Day
·February 11th: Promise Day
·February 12th: Kiss Day
·February 13th: Hug Day
·February 14th: Valentine’s Day
Although a relationship can spark during any season, is there a certain time of year where relationships blossom best and are most enduring?

Youths are energized as the week of affection begins, Hallmarks and Archie's agonizing with adoration tokens, there is love noticeable all around .Valentine week generates a lot of income and revenue to Business houses for various flower, gifts, Chocolates and recreational companies and entertainment spots and that is from your pocket.
Propose Day---8TH February (Valentine Week)

You might be stressed by Valentine’s Day because you feel pressured to get someone a gift or because to don’t have anyone to get a gift for. Who made up such a day that forces people to be a little bit more romantic than usual and what did they gain from it? Whether you sit out or stay in, Valentine’s Day is coming. Keep in mind that Valentine's Day is just another simple day among the 365 days that they Love each other. Create and share a vision of your dream life together.



So finally keep away from this stupid Valentine Day by Saying the same, old boring “I love you” on this day. It is occasion  only for fools. Your love is more than a card that says "I love you", and a gifted trip to a cinema hall or to sip coffee in a restaurant.


Agreed love is blind but you are not, don’t be stupid, behave graceful attitude for you love. Real love is a quiet kindness stretched out over a lifetime Please don’t shrink Love in one day as an event.
Ending this right up with wisdom of Mevlana Jalalu-d-din Rumi’s wisdom on love:----



“You cannot hide love
Love will get on its way
To the heart of someone you love
Far or near, it goes home
To where it belongs
To the heart of lovers”(RUMI)

Written and posted by Engr Maqbool Akram with help of Wkipedia and other sources available on net---Photos are also shared from sources with thanks.


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